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For married Muslim mothers
Scared you're becoming your mum?
You promised yourself your marriage would be different. You promised yourself your children would grow up differently.
But somehow, the same patterns keep showing up.
If you're tired of reacting in ways you regret and worried about what you're carrying into your marriage and parenting, this is for you.
Apply for a Clarity Call
A short application for a free 30-minute Clarity Call.
If you're tired of reacting in ways you regret and worried about what you're carrying into your marriage and parenting, this is for you.
What happens when the pattern begins to change?
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I came out with a healed relationship with my husband (having been on the brink of divorce), with my parents and most importantly, with myself.
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Given the personal nature of this work, client privacy is always a priority. All testimonials are shared with consent, with names abbreviated and identifying details concealed where necessary to protect confidentiality.
1:1 therapeutic coaching with Sabika Rezavi
The Sacred Return
A three-part process to understand what's keeping you stuck, work with what you've been carrying and begin returning to your Fitrah.
- 01
Reveal
See what's actually happening.
Understand the triggers, patterns and unconscious responses shaping the way you show up in your closest relationships.
- 02
Release
Work with what's underneath them.
Using somatic and re-parenting work, begin tending to the emotional wounds, unmet needs and survival patterns you've been carrying.
- 03
Return
Build a different way forward.
Reconnect with yourself, your relationships and your Fitrah, the woman Allah created you to be, beneath the wounds, conditioning and survival patterns.
You don't have to keep repeating what came before you.
If you're ready to understand the patterns that keep pulling you back and begin changing how you show up in your marriage, your motherhood and your relationship with yourself, take the first step.
Apply for a Clarity Call
Complete a short application to see whether 1:1 work with Sabika is right for you. If it looks like a fit, you will be able to choose a time for a free 30-minute Clarity Call with her.
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01 / 06You and your husband keep having the same argument in slightly different ways.
You promised yourself you'd do things differently.
Understanding where the pattern came from isn't always enough to change it.
You might already know why you react the way you do.
Because the patterns we carry don't only show up in what we think. They can show up in:
- Our marriage
- Our parenting
- Our emotional responses
- Our relationship with ourselves
- Even our connection with Allah
You may understand your childhood.
Know your triggers.
Have reflected on your relationship with your parents.
And still find yourself reacting before you've had a chance to think.
The Sacred Return is about working with what sits underneath those patterns, not simply becoming more aware of them.
Apply for a Clarity Call
A short application for a free 30-minute Clarity Call.
Meet Sabika Rezavi
1:1 therapeutic coaching · MSc Psychology · TEDx speaker
I'm Sabika Rezavi. I offer 1:1 therapeutic coaching for Muslim women who want to understand and change the patterns showing up in their closest relationships.
My work brings together psychology, the Enneagram, somatic work and reparenting alongside an understanding of the faith and cultural context in which many Muslim women experience marriage, motherhood and family.
The Sacred Return also grew from my own experience of realising that understanding my patterns intellectually wasn't the same as being free from them.
This work is about bringing those pieces together: mind, body, relationships and faith.
The Sacred Return is a 1:1 journey.
16 private sessions
One-to-one sessions with Sabika.
Online
Work with Sabika from the UK or internationally.
Work between sessions
Practical reflection and exercises to continue the work outside the session.
Support between sessions
Reasonable WhatsApp support because real life doesn't only happen during appointments.
Apply for a Clarity Call
Apply for a free 30-minute Clarity Call to see if The Sacred Return is right for you.
Is The Sacred Return right for you?
This may be for you if
- You're a married Muslim mother and recognise yourself in the patterns described on this page.
- You're willing to look beyond what's happening on the surface.
- You want to work on your own responses rather than simply change everyone around you.
- You're willing to reflect, participate and do the work between sessions.
- You want support that understands your faith and cultural context.
FAQ
Questions you might have
Is this therapy?
No. Sabika is a therapeutic/reparenting coach with an MSc in Psychology, not a therapist, and The Sacred Return isn't a substitute for therapy or medical care.
If Sabika believes what you're experiencing requires a different form of support, she'll tell you.
Do I need to have had a difficult childhood?
No. Needs can go unmet even in loving families with parents who were doing the best they could.
This isn't about blaming your parents. It's about understanding what shaped you and how it may still be showing up today.
Will I have to talk about things I'm not ready to discuss?
No. You set the pace. Nothing needs to be forced.
Is the programme online?
Yes. The 1:1 programme is online, and Sabika works with women in the UK and internationally.
What happens on the Clarity Call?
It's a free 30-minute conversation with Sabika about what's happening for you, what you're hoping to change and whether The Sacred Return is an appropriate next step.
If there's a fit, Sabika will explain what working together involves and answer your questions.
Apply for a Clarity Call
A short application for a free 30-minute Clarity Call.
